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Furthermore, they do so in a situation where women's own social instruction may reduce the very characteristics that many of these men desire.Given that, many men sit on the couch, plug in a video game, and opt out—just as Behaviorism and Skinner might predict.Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor Last week, I discussed why women can't find a "good" man (here).In that article, I explained my hypothesis that women are stuck in a double-bind between what they are told through modern social norms and their own biological motivation.Changing social norms has allowed few avenues by which they can be both acceptable as a relationship partner and attractive as a sex partner.As a result, at least half of their needs are unfulfilled, regardless of the decision they make.These men may further be regarded as "just friends"—expected to pay for all of the costs of a relationship, without the physical and intimate benefits (see here).
Essentially, many men report that they find modern dating a primarily punishing affair.Men have adapted and devised a number of strategies to make the best of these difficult options, including the following:1) Becoming Attractive - one strategy adopted by some men is to become attractive, dominant, and sexually-forward.These are the guys who are often labeled "players", "macks", and "pick-up artists".This week, I will discuss how that double-bind for women may have resulted in a double-bind for men as well.Today, men are given confusing and contradictory advice.
Socially, they are expected to be "compliant" (i.e. However, they are also urged by women's sexual interest to maintain an "attractive personality" (i.e. Unfortunately, men sometimes report that attempting to balance these notions does not result in satisfaction, happiness, or women's appreciation and respect.