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And through their work, they’ve set up hundreds of first and second dates with local and international singles seeking partners.Matchmaking isn’t as simple as pairing two single people, Fass and Apple explained in a joint conversation with the Journal.Fass, who grew up in Northridge, got into professional matchmaking in 2013 after making three matches on her own, which, according to Jewish legend, earned her a place in the World to Come.Apple has matched 10 couples who have gotten married or are in long-term relationships. Fass, who specializes in international matches, has matched six couples for marriage and two couples who are in a long-term relationship.But millennials would all rather be on swipe apps.” Dating apps make people think “it’s the boyfriend/girlfriend store and there are endless options,” Fass said, but with the apps’ high potential for miscommunication, “we need to just get you on the freaking date.” Clients should treat app matches like “a hot sales lead,” she added. you see instant results.” Fass stated a preference for sites like and e Harmony.com, where people can share and learn more about each other.In today’s Jewish matchmaking, dating and partner preferences skewer the layers of traditional community expectations, idealized dating scenarios and contemporary realities like financial stability.In Anatevka, fictional young women yearned for a match who, for Papa, should be a scholar and, for Mama, as rich as a king.In 21st-century Los Angeles, matchmaking is different from how it was portrayed in “Fiddler on the Roof,” but is alive and well, bringing single citizens together for serious relationships.
She also notes that singles 40 and older is “a growing niche” that needs more programming.
It’s OK to be picky about things that you want, but do you know what’s important in a long-term monogamous relationship? Negativity toward a match, sometimes even before a first meeting, can be lethal, she said. In terms of a match’s potential, Fass keeps it simple: “Could you see yourself kissing them, and do they make you feel good?
Then go for a second date.” No matchmaker can guarantee love.
Fass helps clients plan the date and asks them to write down everything afterward.
A few days later, she interviews both parties and provides feedback.
Women are often picky about height, Apple added, and although women say “sense of humor” is a priority, matchmakers often have to find out what that really means. So stop judging weight.” One client of Apple’s would accept only dates with oval-shaped faces. I never heard that before.” Fass had one client who insisted that all of his dates wear dresses.