In fact, one of my reasons for writing this article is to bust a lot of the MYTHS that some so-called “pick up” or dating coaches are spreading. Because some random dating coaches online recommended it. (Maybe they’ll sometimes go to bars with friends.) But that’s actually a good thing, because most women spend their time in less obnoxious environments.When I was first trying to overcome my shyness around girls… My apartment was even a few blocks away from one of the main nightlife areas in the city, so it was easy to walk there. And while other dating coaches advise to chat to people in coffee shops, bookstores and supermarkets, I believe it’s more important to think about: Stop thinking about where to meet any girl.I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.As long as a girl is attractive to a man, he will often see her as girlfriend material…
Shy women usually don’t have the same problems that shy guys do.
There is no one-size-fits-all answer for where to find your dream girl. It took me a few months of banging my head against the wall to realize the obvious: Women are everywhere.
Successful couples have met each other in many different places, in many different ways. And the vast majority of women aren’t going to be out clubbing past maybe a few times in their college years.
Start thinking about where you can meet the girl who is right for you.
The problem with meeting girls at nightclubs or even going to one of those”single people events” is that there’s a The first step to finding a girlfriend is to put yourself into situations where you can meet many different girls that have a high chance of being compatible with you.
You have to put yourself into situations where you have a chance to come in contact with women. If you don’t have many friends or a social circle, then you’ll have to get some or be proactive in other ways. So if you want a girlfriend, then you’ll need to do something different. Looking back now, it’s no wonder girls never showed any interest in me.