30 something woman dating 20 something men
Christian Rudder, president of Ok Cupid, is the guy who digs up the numbers from the millions of people using his free dating site.
In his book, “Dataclysm,” he points out that who we want to be and who we really are can be two very different things.
This doesn’t mean that 40 year old men want to MARRY that 20 year old woman, only that they find her the most physically appealing.
Once upon a time, he was trying to illustrate why free dating sites were “better” than paid dating sites, but it was clear that he was advocating for Ok Cupid.
But the same way I try to lay out best practices for dating and relationships while allowing for many exceptions to the rules, I think we’d all be well served to pay attention to how people really act when no one’s looking instead of taking their word for it. Men are attracted to women who are at their most fertile.
Is doesn’t matter if the man is 50, already had kids, and has virtually no chance of being with a 20 year old.
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"Please let her really be 18, Please let her really be 18, Please let her really be 18" Last thing I want him to hear is "well, I am actually 17, but I act a lot older"Plus I wouldn't think that it'd last very long.
Of course, when you flip the data around and look at what age men find women most physically appealing, you get an appalling answer.